I'm in a bad way and I don't really want to turn to any of my close friends, out of shame more than anything else. To tell it short, I've been seeing this girl for about 8 months now and yesterday I found out she slept with some other dude on the weekend. He's an old friend of her's who's staying with her for a few days after returning from Australia. I knew they'd kissed a few times about 3 years ago, but she told me this straight up and told me I had nothing to worry about. I did trust her, as you have to I guess.
So then I meet this guy yesterday (who's sound as a pound it turns out) and find out what's happened in basically the worst possible way. He starts bragging about what he got up to on Sunday and how much fun he had with her. She clearly hadn't breathed a word to him about what ever it was I had with her. I confronted her afterwards, she lied to my face, then I told her how I know she's lying and she quickly goes quiet and stops denying everything. I didn't hang around any longer to hear anymore of her BS, just headed straight to work this morning.
I haven't slept all night. I look like a ghost. I've never been hurt like this before and I really don't know what to do with myself. I spent most of last night dreaming up ways that I could murder her and hide her body where no one would ever find it (not really, but I'm pretty fucked right now.)
I've never had someone abuse my trust so callously and it's left me completely off guard. I promise this is absolutely genuine and I'm not taking the piss here. I do expect a bit of ribbing but I just need some advice if any of you have been in a similar situation.
Thanks in advance,
J
So then I meet this guy yesterday (who's sound as a pound it turns out) and find out what's happened in basically the worst possible way. He starts bragging about what he got up to on Sunday and how much fun he had with her. She clearly hadn't breathed a word to him about what ever it was I had with her. I confronted her afterwards, she lied to my face, then I told her how I know she's lying and she quickly goes quiet and stops denying everything. I didn't hang around any longer to hear anymore of her BS, just headed straight to work this morning.
I haven't slept all night. I look like a ghost. I've never been hurt like this before and I really don't know what to do with myself. I spent most of last night dreaming up ways that I could murder her and hide her body where no one would ever find it (not really, but I'm pretty fucked right now.)
I've never had someone abuse my trust so callously and it's left me completely off guard. I promise this is absolutely genuine and I'm not taking the piss here. I do expect a bit of ribbing but I just need some advice if any of you have been in a similar situation.
Thanks in advance,
J